翟梓洺,西安科技大学通信工程专业学生,2006年8月11日赴美国鲍尔州立大学学习计算机科学专业,在美学习平均成绩3.8110,2008年6月20日回到中国。2009年6月23日在“《1+2+1中美人才培养计划》第六届学生毕业典礼”上获得中美大学学士学位,同时获得《1+2+1中美人才培养计划》2009年度优秀毕业生奖。
Zhai Ziming was a student majored inCommunications Engineeringfrom Xi’an University of Science and Technology. He went to Ball State University for the study of Computer Science specialty on August 11, 2006 and returned to China on June 20, 2008 with excellent GPA of 3.8110. He received dual bachelors’ degree from both Chinese and U.S. Universities, and the prize for excellent graduates from this program on the Sixth Graduation Ceremony of “Sino-American 1+2+1 Dual-Degree Program” on June 23, 2009.
姓名:翟梓洺
性别:男
出生年月:1987年06月06日
中方学校:西安科技大学
美方学校: Ball State University
专业:Computer Science
在美学习时间:2006年8月至2008年6月
留学感想
现在还清晰得记得两年前初次走出国门时稚气的样子,匆匆和父母道了一声别以后便一个推着小车进了安检,也不知道这次道别意味着什么,也不知道未来的两年里会发生什么,更没有想过两年后的我会是个什么样子。带着这种种的迷惑,我登上了飞往美国的飞机,开始了我的留学之路。细细想来,通过在美国这两年的生活学习,我学会了怎么去读书,丰富了自己的人生阅历,并且使自己更加清楚地认识了国内外形势和自己的人生目标。
学习是我在美国生活中的总要组成元素。中国和美国教育体系的巨大差异确实给自己带来了不少的麻烦,再加上自己英语水平较低,在刚开始的几个星期内确实感到很吃力。我也慢慢地意识到出国留学绝不是一次长途旅行,而是一次挑战,一种磨砺。来到美国要过的第一关便是语言关,这对我确实是一个很大的挑战,因为我没有参加过托福考试,所以需要通过上一些语言课程来提高自己的英语水平。虽然说学习语言会占用自己专业课学习的时间,但是这些语言课对我认识美国文化,结交各个国家的国际学生有很大的帮助。
头两个月是最难熬的,孤独,担心,怀疑会时时伴随在自己身旁。不过只要咬紧牙关,永不言弃,就肯定可以渡过难关,以后的生活也就会顺利起来。再有就是要尽快克服我们在国内养成的一些坏习惯,尤其不能做一些影响中国人声誉的事情,比如说抄作业,美国教授对于抄袭是很反感的,在我们上的第一门课上便出现了这种情况,让我们所有的这些学生都感觉很抬不起头来。
不过总的来说,当我适应过来美国的教育方式以后,学习方面已经不是一个很大的难题,甚至来说可以很轻松的去应付自己的专业课。这也是我们中国人引以自豪的地方,基本上在每次的考试中中国人都会保持在第一集团中。我记得在一门专业考试中,我们7个中国人平均分在95分以上,远远高于其他美国人。连教授都说这会是他在退休之前最难以忘记的一门课。还有一个方面就是要对自己有充分的信心,不过以前在国内的成绩怎么样,学校水平怎么样,大家现在都处在同一个起跑线上,不要一开始就把自己给否定了,否则会给自己带来很大的负面影响。只要你努力了,教授就会给你一个好的成绩作为回报。
以我对美国教育体系的认识来说,只满足于课堂上的那些知识是远远不够的。课堂上的那些知识只是给那些普通美国学生来设计的,而这些知识在我看来还不如国内课堂上讲的实用。美国教育体系最好的地方是他有丰富的资源和设施,这些对于一个热爱学习的中国人来说可谓是一份免费的至宝。一定要好好的利用这些资源去来丰富自己的知识。另外一个方面就是要注意和教授的交流,和教授搞好关系了对自己的学习会很有帮助,也会有机会接触到一些很好的项目,在这些项目中去学习教授们的思维方式还有美国式的团队合作精神,对自己的未来很有帮助。
总之,学习方面对我来说是一个很引以自豪的方面,学到了很多知识,也结交了几个不错的教授,这些对我以后的研究生生涯会有很大的帮助。
除去学习以外,生活方面的问题可以说是很多留学生最大的困难了。我认为总的来说要处理好三个方面的问题: 自身修养、中国学生之间的关系以及与国际友人之间的关系。
第一,自身修养。参加1+2+1项目的学生大部分都是20岁左右,有不少也是第一次离开父母自己开始打理自己的生活问题。这对于很多学生来说很是个很棘手的问题,如果自己没有坚强的意志和乐观向上的思想,会是很危险的。长期处于一个孤独的状态下,自己的各方面是很不稳定的。所以对于一个留学生来说首先要有一个良好的心理素质和修养,一定要相信自己,敢于去面对任何挑战。但是不要给自己太大的压力,也不要把自己所有的时间都放到学习上,夺取积极参加一些课外活动,经常去运动一下对自己在美国的生活会很有帮助的。
所谓出门靠朋友,这句话在国外尤其正确。所以一定要处理好中国人之间的关系。不管在国内认识不认识,关系好不好,到了国外所有中国人就是一家人。不管你跟外国人关系再好,当自己遇到麻烦的时候,肯定都是我们中国人在无私的帮助你。从一到美国到离开美国,都会有很多中国人在帮我,而这种良好的关系似乎已经成为了一个传统。哪怕不认识对方,只要说一句我是中国人,大家都会很信任的去帮助对方,我们会感觉到中华民族是一个多么团结和伟大的民族。
一般情况下,每个学校都会有自己的中国学生会,是我们中国人之间沟通的很好的媒介。每当中国传统节日的时候,中国学生会都会组织一些活动,而且如果对基督教感兴趣的话,可以去参加中国教会,那里会有很多好心的中国人去帮助你解决在美国生活中所遇到的各种问题。多去参加一些这样的活动,会认识很多朋友,比如说一些中国籍教授,他们在美国呆的时间比较长,对美国了解比较深,他们往往会给我们这些新的学生一些好好的指导,为以后去找工作,继续深造打下坚实的基础。
最后一个就是要和其他国家学生搞好关系。在国外我们代表的不再是一个人,而是我们整个国家整个民族。当你做了什么事情以后,他们会说你们中国人怎么怎么了,而不会说你怎么怎么了。所以不要去做一些有损我们国家荣誉的事情,要做一个问心无愧的中国人!我在美国遇到过三次比较敏锐的事件,第一个是美国弗吉尼亚理工枪杀案的时候,很多人认为是华裔学生所为。那段时间当我走在学校路上的时候,就会听到很多人冲着我们在骂,那个时候我们该怎么办,跟他们吵,不是那不是我们中国人的方法。第二个事件是藏民的问题,CNN错误的报道了这个事件误导了很多美国人,那个时候我们不能闹,要用和平的方法去解决这个问题,比如说很多留学生自发的去游行表达自己的心声。第三件事情便是四川地震的时候,这是一次全人类的灾难,这个时候我们就要发挥我们的力量,将这件事情尽快地传播给每个人,组织大家捐款,为四川地震进自己的一份力量,在地震后几天,我们便跟学校申请在餐厅举行捐款,我们学校的电视台也为此作了报道。通过这个事件,好多美国人对中国有了更深的了解。
作为一个中国人在国外要做到不去损害自己的祖国的荣誉,必要的时候还要去捍卫自己祖国的尊严,要始终坚信为自己为中国人而自豪。
总的来说,这两年的生活学习确实让我学到了不少东西,也觉得自己越来越成熟了。两年前的决定确实是正确的,而且给自己带来了不少的收获。美国的两年生活,是我人生当中最宝贵,最难忘的一段日子。
翟梓洺
2008年9月于西安科技大学
Two years’ experience of studying in United Stated is a priceless treasure for me. Studying abroad is a valuable challenge for us who are seeking success to work on. Generally there are two aspects which give me great impressions, the American style studying experience and communication among self, people and nations.
First of all, study is one of the top important elements for me in the two years’ lives, which also is my original impetus of going to the United States. The differences between American culture and Chinese culture prevented me to adapt to the American education system since I started my study in United States. The first and biggest problem is the language. Though I have learnt English for almost tem years, the knowledge about English I learnt in China is somehow useless in United States. I cannot understand what the American said and didn’t know how to express my opinion in English in the first several weeks. Fortunately, Ball State University offers several special English courses for foreign students who have English problems. Some of them are not too hard for Chinese students such as Grammar and Reading. In my opinion, all of these courses are valuable since it offers a chance to communicate with students from different countries and a shortcut to familiar with the English culture.
Generally, it will spend several months to beat the language problems. From then on, we can take some major courses or UCC courses. I major in computer science, and most of my major courses don’t emphasize the English skill, so I felt not too difficult to study major courses at the first. So in the first semester I took both some major courses and English courses. Some fundamental courses are not too hard for us, but it doesn’t mean that we don’t need to pay much attention on them; instead, try our best in all the major courses to become the one of the top students in the courses which is useful for us to get the chance to work with professors. One of the most important things I want to mention here is the honesty in American study culture. There is one time happened in my class in the first semester. Some of students cheated in their homework, they almost failed in this course or maybe even were expelled from the school. I think we should avoid such thing happened again as a Chinese student, otherwise it will diminish the reputation of all the Chinese people.
If we work hard and follow the direction of the instructors in the courses, most of Chinese students can get high grades in the courses. I got no worse than A- in all my majors course, so most of Chinese students did. Though we came from different universities in China, we have the same starting in United States. We should believe in ourselves, and always believe we are better than the American students.
Beside the study in courses, I’d like to spend my free time in the library. I think the best advantage of American education is its rich sources. I can find all the information from the library at BSU; if not, the librarian would help me to borrow the books from other universities. The environment of the library is very convenient for studying: big desk, free printing, free scanning, computer, video camera, comfort sofa and individual classroom. In my opinion, we shouldn’t satisfy the knowledge in the classes, most of the courses are designed for the average level American students which are not enough for the further studying. And also I think it is important to communicate with professors frequently. I got two projects from the professors from my department which are valuable experience for my future academic career. The last thing I need to mention is the importance of team work. The American education and the whole American society like and emphasize the ability of cooperation. We would have to work with different groups of people in our study in American.
Generally, studying aspect is not a big problem for me. I learn new knowledge and have a clear understanding of the future of my academic career.
The other big issue I need to face is how to satisfy the American culture in my daily life. I believe most of Chinese student had this problem. It can be divided as three levels. First of all, it is the intrapersonal education. For example, all the oversea students will experience the feel of lonely which is a dangerous status for us. We should learn how to live lonely and keep a good psychological environment. Don’t give ourselves too much pressure and never give up. Doing excises frequently are my method to reduce the feeling of lonely. Moreover, attending excises can help us to meet more friends, thereby further reducing the feeling of lonely.
Additionally, interpersonal communication is also very important for me. It is helpful for us to have a good relationship with other Chinese students. When we got in trouble, it is often that some Chinese students would come to help us. For example, the day before I left United Stated, I suffered a worse enteritis in my house. At that time, there is only myself here and it is almost 11:00 PM. It is my friend who leave far from my house took me to the hospital and take care with me for the whole night. I will never forget his help in my later life. Furthermore, it is a treasure for us to meet more Chinese students in United States. Even if I returned back to China or work in China, I had more chances to get success. Therefore, we should attend the Chinese student activities as more as possible. In there we can meet some new friends, exchange our experience in United States, and also get some free staff from here. For example we had to buy used furniture when we moved to a new house. Generally we buy them from the students who will leave school, if we have some good friends we can find some good condition and cheap furniture.
Finally, we need build a good relationship with the student form different countries. Through the communication with them, we can learn more new and specific knowledge. One of my friends who from Saudi Arabia told me that, He had a girlfriend he never saw before and he can have many wives in different cities. That is strange for me and I can never know if I just stay with Chinese students. Moreover, we need remember that we represent out country not ourselves in United States. What we do and what we say is what Chinese do and what Chinese say. There are three big events happened when I was in United States. The first one is one Korean-American killed 33 students in Virginia Tech. Most of people thought he was a Chinese at first, many American student in our campus became not friendly to us and sometimes shout to us. We cannot argue with them at that time, instead we should keep quiet and wait for the truth. Otherwise, it would cause a dangerous situation. Second, it is the Tibet issue, CNN, which is one of the biggest media companies in United States, lied on this issue so that misleading many American people. We should protect the reputation of our country by using a peaceful way. We had a small presentation in our campus to tell the truth of this issue. The last thing is the earthquake in Sichuan. Most American didn’t know too much about this event. We also make a small presentation in our campus to spread the information to all the students, and encourage them to donate for the refugee in this earthquake. I think, there three things better show our work in United States in these two years.
In conclusion, I learnt a lot in these two years and became more and more mature. I find my goal in my academic fields, and learn how to live by myself, and so on.